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Ethel Ruby BRIDLE (1879 - 1956)
Children Self + Spouses Parents Grandparents Greatgrandparents
Ethel Ruby BRIDLE (1879 - 1956) William Henry BRIDLE (1851 - 1919) William BRIDLE (1827 - 1922) William BRIDLE (1797 - 1873)
Martha MILES (1807 - 1886)
Elizabeth Margaret WILKINSON (1826 - 1889) William WILKINSON (1797 - 1860)
Margaret KEOGH ( - 1829)
Emma GOSNEY (1854 - 1900)





Maria Theresa CURRAN



Ethel Ruby BRIDLE

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Pic 3. Inscription
In Loving Memory Of
Ethel R Bridle
Born 26-2-1879
Died 16-12-1956
Shelia, Nancy, Bruce

b. 26 Feb 1879 at Bombowlee, New South Wales, Australia
d. 16 Dec 1956 at Tumut, New South Wales, Australia aged 77
Near Relatives of Ethel Ruby BRIDLE (1879 - 1956)
Relationship Person Born Birth Place Died Death Place Age
Grandfather William BRIDLE 18 Jan 1827 Macquarie Fields, New South Wales, Australia 08 May 1922 Bombowlee, New South Wales, Australia 95
Grandmother Elizabeth Margaret WILKINSON 1826 Liverpool, New South Wales, Australia 25 May 1889 Tumut, New South Wales, Australia 63
Grandmother Maria Theresa CURRAN

Father William Henry BRIDLE 03 Oct 1851 Yellowin, New South Wales, Australia 22 Sep 1919 Tumut, New South Wales, Australia 67
Mother Emma GOSNEY 31 Dec 1854 25 Aug 1900 Tumut, New South Wales, Australia 45

Self Ethel Ruby BRIDLE 26 Feb 1879 Bombowlee, New South Wales, Australia 16 Dec 1956 Tumut, New South Wales, Australia 77

Sister Jessie Emma BRIDLE 01 Feb 1881 Tumut, New South Wales, Australia 31 Mar 1952 71
Sister Laura Beatrice Vivian BRIDLE 22 Oct 1884 Tumut, New South Wales, Australia 06 Dec 1940 Brindabella, New South Wales, Australia 56
Brother William Albert Gosney BRIDLE 17 Nov 1888 Tumut, New South Wales, Australia 15 Jun 1909 Tumut, New South Wales, Australia 20
Sister Madge Gosney BRIDLE 1895 Tumut, New South Wales, Australia 1951 Tumut, New South Wales, Australia 56

Uncle Thomas John BRIDLE abt May 1855 Tumut, New South Wales, Australia 17 Oct 1865 Tumut, New South Wales, Australia 10
Uncle Edwin George BRIDLE 20 Jan 1857 Tumut, New South Wales, Australia 09 Jun 1929 Randwick, New South Wales, Australia 72
Aunt Elizabeth Caroline WILKINSON 30 Jun 1858 Tumut, New South Wales, Australia 05 Feb 1943 Brungle, Tumut, New South Wales, Australia 84
Uncle Henry Ernest BRIDLE 1859 Tumut, New South Wales, Australia 22 Dec 1945 Arncliffe, New South Wales, Australia 86
Aunt Annie May FRANKLIN 1876 Brindabella, New South Wales, Australia 03 Oct 1966 Sydney, New South Wales, Australia 90
Aunt Margaret Elizabeth BRIDLE 19 Jan 1864 Tumut, New South Wales, Australia 04 Oct 1926 Tumut, New South Wales, Australia 62
Uncle John Theodore LAMPE 23 Dec 1857 Cooma, Monaro, New South Wales, Australia 1931 Tumut, New South Wales, Australia 74
Uncle Edward BRIDLE 05 Aug 1864 Tumut, New South Wales, Australia 08 Aug 1864 Tumut, New South Wales, Australia 0
Uncle Arthur BRIDLE 1866 Tumut, New South Wales, Australia 03 Feb 1945 Manila, Philippines 79
Aunt Luz MAGLINTE
Uncle John Robert BRIDLE 25 Apr 1868 Tumut, New South Wales, Australia 23 Jul 1955 Nanango, Queensland, Australia 87
Aunt Gertrude Jane HINGSTON

Cousin Dulcie Maud BRIDLE 1883 Tumut, New South Wales, Australia 1964 81
Cousin Leslie Wilkinson BRIDLE 04 Mar 1885 Tumut, New South Wales, Australia 1951 Wagga Wagga, New South Wales, Australia 66
Cousin Ella Elizabeth BRIDLE abt 1887 Tumut, New South Wales, Australia
Cousin Ada Avenix BRIDLE 10 Jan 1889 Tumut, New South Wales, Australia 1967 78
Cousin Wallace Edwin BRIDLE 1890 Tumut, New South Wales, Australia 1964 74
Cousin Ivy Jean BRIDLE abt 1893 Tumut, New South Wales, Australia 28 Apr 1949 Summer Hill, New South Wales, Australia 56
Cousin Eliza Elsa Rose BRIDLE 11 Oct 1894 Tumut, New South Wales, Australia 1976 82
Cousin Edwin William BRIDLE 1896 Tumut, New South Wales, Australia
Cousin Elizabeth Caroline BRIDLE 1899 Tumut, New South Wales, Australia 1992 93
Cousin John Wilkinson BRIDLE 1901 Tumut, New South Wales, Australia
Cousin Leslie Annie BRIDLE 1904 Brindabella, New South Wales, Australia
Cousin Ruby Franklin BRIDLE 1908 Braidwood, New South Wales, Australia
Cousin Ruby Florence LAMPE 1885 Tumut, New South Wales, Australia 1976 New South Wales, Australia 91
Cousin Victor Theodore LAMPE 1891 Tumut, New South Wales, Australia 1978 Queanbeyan, New South Wales, Australia 87
Cousin Arthur Oltmann LAMPE 1899 Tumut, New South Wales, Australia 1969 Tumut, New South Wales, Australia 70
Cousin Pearl Doris LAMPE 1904 Tumut, New South Wales, Australia 1986 New South Wales, Australia 82

Nephew Leslie William FRANKLIN 1909 Burwood, New South Wales, Australia 1985 Canberra, ACT, Australia 76
Niece Beatrice Bridelle FRANKLIN 1913 Tumut, New South Wales, Australia
Niece Nell FRANKLIN 1915 Tumut, New South Wales, Australia 1961 46
Nephew Lindsay Ronald FRANKLIN 1921 Brindabella, New South Wales, Australia 2007 Tumut, New South Wales, Australia 86

Brother in Law Thomas Ernest (Les) FRANKLIN 1880 Brindabella, New South Wales, Australia 25 Nov 1946 Brindabella, New South Wales, Australia 66
Brother in Law Robert Burns PATTERSON 1897 Queanbeyan, New South Wales, Australia 1978 81
Events in Ethel Ruby BRIDLE (1879 - 1956)'s life
Date Age Event Place Notes Src
26 Feb 1879 Ethel Ruby BRIDLE was born Bombowlee, New South Wales, Australia 69
25 Aug 1900 21 Death of mother Emma GOSNEY (aged 45) Tumut, New South Wales, Australia
22 Sep 1919 40 Death of father William Henry BRIDLE (aged 67) Tumut, New South Wales, Australia
16 Dec 1956 77 Ethel Ruby BRIDLE died Tumut, New South Wales, Australia 69
Personal Notes:
From ‘Relict of’ Book see Sources
ETHEL RUBY BRIDLE
By Sheila Garner
'Lellie'. Our early childhood name for a much loved Aunt, dearly loved by us all.

Ethel Ruby Bridle was born on 26 February 1879 at Riverslea Bombowlee, eldest daughter of William Henry and Emma Bridle nee Gosney. She was never that rapt about her name, hearing that her father had chosen it, she wondered why he didn't name her after her grandmother Maria Theresa Gosney nee Curran as Marie Therese. Few people ever knew what the capital R stood for.

She had a very happy childhood living opposite Rose Vale, home of her grandparents and Auntie Margaret, whom she loved. She and her sisters, Jessie and Beatrice, often played there on a big rock under a cedar tree.

In September 1884 she was bridesmaid (five years old) when Auntie Margaret married Theodore Lampe and went to live at Woodlands, Talbingo. Holidays at Woodlands were looked forward to with much excitement, with her much loved Auntie and Uncle Theo, though he didn't appreciate an arrangement of briars in the white fireplace after he'd been pulling them out all day. Sundays, in those days, were strictly observed as a day of rest, especially at the home of Great Auntie, Sarah Lampe. After a family church service the day was to be kept QUIETLY and no noise or rushing about. Going to visit her with cousins, Ruby and Pearl, riding sidesaddle, she galloped up to the homestead, only to be asked didn't she know what day it was? Knowing full well what day it was and how she was expected to keep it, she answered that she was in such a hurry to see her aunt, she had to gallop. What is more, she got away with it.

Ethel was always in great demand to play for their dances. On one occasion having promised her mother that she would go to bed at I am, which she did. However, Ethel reappeared a short time later and continued playing having kept her promise, as her mother had failed to say when she could get up.

Reading was another favourite pastime and once she became so engrossed in the book, she got too close to the candle and burnt a hole through it. Ethel studied the piano and was a very talented pupil of Mrs Radford, so much so that she was encouraged to consider a career as a concert pianist. She was always in much demand at concerts, as a soloist or accompanist. She also indulged in a little singing and drama.

There was much family reJoIcing when her engagement was announced on 31 December 1899 but a wedding was not to be. In August 1900 their dearly loved mother passed away leaving a great void in their lives. As the youngest child was only four, Ethel decided her place was at home and not as a concert pianist, which must have been a great disappointment. Her Uncle Arthur felt she had made a great sacrifice.

Her Uncle Jack was teaching in Junee and 1906 saw her move there to care for his daughter Vivienne, following his wife's death. Ethel was very happy there and learnt to play bridge and golf, both of which she enjoyed immensely.

In 1908 she was a bridesmaid at her sister Beatrice's wedding, when she married Les Franklin; from all accounts it was a pretty wedding.

Off to Bourke in 1909 to be a mother's help for nine months. In June, her only Brother, William (Hilla) aged 20 was drowned, riding his, horse across the Tumut River. This was a tragic happening for all the family. Ethel loved the west so much she stayed nine years. When the nine years were up she rented Veneta and began teaching music, she was also the church organist. Jessie or Madge enjoyed spending time with her, meeting friends and participating in all activities, dances, parties, balls, picnics, musical evenings when Madge got more entertainment from watching two men, each vying for Ethels' affection, rather than the music and so on. The bone of contention for Madge was taking soup and cakes to lonely old house-bound ladies, whom Ethel thought would like to see a new face. A wonderful farewell was tended her when she decided to return to Tumut, being driven to the evening in the first car to come to Bourke.

Her organising ability was amazing, be it a church bazaar, Red Cross concert, many war efforts, hospital functions and many others in Bourke and later in Tumut. Musical festivals, oldtime balls (adults and juniors), concerts, Musical Students Club (her pupils) and so on.. every detail and every aspect of it had to be exactly right and was so, usually due to her great input and thoroughness.

1918 she purchased Veneta (Tumut) from Fred Lampe and was the fourth generation of her family to own these two blocks. On her return to Tumut she continued teaching piano, singing, theory, musical perception and organ until her death in December 1956.

Ethel went to Elizabeth Farm House, Sydney to have lessons on Beethoven, a favourite always. She also became the organist at All Saints. In 1926 a memorial pipe organ was installed but no one could play it, so Ethel went to the conservatorium of Music in Sydney and had organ lessons from Mr Faunce Allman.
er religion and church were very important to her always.

Sadly in 1919 her father collapsed and died suddenly after a long illness with asthma. A very sad time for Ethel and her sisters. Their much loved grandfather died in 1922.

Ethel pursued all the usual happenings of her day. She created the All Saints Girls Club, taught Sunday School, provided the music for the Chinese Church Group and later on was a member of the Church Council for many years. She was mainly instrumental in having the Iych gate, memorial gates and fence erected in front of the church. She was secretary of the Music Festivals, the Literary Institute (she always
wanted a public library, as she felt that reading should not be the privilege of those who could afford it), and the Pioneer Cemetery (when the church cared for their own area and she was able to secure a caretaker for that purpose by canvassing families). Many times she was approached to be a Justice of the Peace but she always refused as it would be too disruptive to her music lessons. She was quite a
capable public speaker, usually "off the cuff". As well, she was still caring for the lonely, as in Bourke.

1924 saw the wedding of Madge to Robert Patterson and along came eight little Pattersons who were often at the Aunts, (Ethel and Jessie). Ethel was a born story teller and how we loved listening and begging for more, all made up and years later we realised each had a moral. Ethel refused a position as music teacher at a boarding school in Melbourne because she wanted to foster the musical talents she
felt we all had, and if she left who would. A.E., as we later called her, had so much patience, but was strict, expected obedience, good manners, respect and correct speech.

For the centenary of Tumut in 1924 Ethel composed a song "Tumut" in honour of the occasion. Many copies were sold in aid of the celebration. On the night of the Centenary Ball it was to be played by the orchestra. Complimentary tickets were sent out but not to her. As she couldn't afford a ticket she stood in the street to hear it played. She also composed a school song for the Tumut Intermediate High and it
was sung every Monday in assembly for years. She also dabbled with other compositions.

A "Back to Bourke" invitation was sent to Ethel in 1937 requesting her to bring two others. She chose the eldest daughter of each of her married sisters (Beatrice Franklin and myself). Wasn't I lucky? It was absolutely amazing to see the great number of people who remembered her and greeted her with so much love and affection. It spoke volumes. She had been in Tumut 24 years by then.

In 1961 a painting was presented to the Library by the old Literary Institute in Ethel's memory, describing her as a most admirable, wonderful and vigorous personality marked by courage, large vision and an indomitable spirit.

In later years the same kindness and care she bad shown to many, was bestowed upon her over and over again. What an exciting time to have lived through; going from riding side saddle to flying - to Tasmania and Cairns and she loved it:

Ethel loved Sydney, and as she had the same holidays as schools, she went often. Her many relations and friends were always glad to see her. Finally, there were too many to visit and some got missed, of which she was reminded. So she decided, in future, those who could, would meet in the Botanical Gardens at a certain time and on a particular day. I always feel, in her small way, she began the re-unions we have since enjoyed.

After her death, a window was given by her family and friends and dedicated to her memory, in appreciation of her music and what she had achieved for All Saints, her much loved "family church" in every way.

Ethel Bridle was a lady highly thought of by so many, described as a marvellous influence, independent, outspoken, and if criticism was given, it was helpful criticism. Her thoughtful counsel, never failing sympathy and moral courage. To work with her was always a challenge and stimulus to higher and better things. A lady in every respect. On her death it was written that Tumut had lost one of its best known, noblest and well-beloved citizens.
Source References:
69. Type: Book, Abbr: Relict of, Title: Relict of … Lives of Pioneering Women of Tumut and District, Auth: Tumut Family History Group, Publ: Tumut Family History Group, Date: 2001
- Reference = 72 (Birth)
- Reference = 72 (Death)
- Reference = 72 (Name, Notes)
76. Type: Web Page, Abbr: Find a Grave, Title: Find A Grave, Locn: https://www.findagrave.com/
- Reference = https://www.findagrave.com/memorial/198769653/ethel-ruby-bridle (Name, Notes)

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